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Reply #30 posted 12/22/05 6:53am

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Adisa said:

origmnd said:

read between the fucken lines....

Ima gay shes a dyke ...

Those were my thoughts before I even read the content of this thread. Will is as gay as the day is long. Jada? Well, I guess it's a sad case of preferring to have a Down Low brotha than no brotha at all.

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Can some explain why they think Will is gay? WTF has this brother done to have the Gayblade title put on him.
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Reply #31 posted 12/22/05 7:11am

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I heard the interview. The tone of Will's voice was one of sarcasm. I remember him stating it a little differently. He was basically telling her that he found someone else attractive and that he would have sex with her if Jada said yes. But he knew that she wouldnt say yes.
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Reply #32 posted 12/22/05 7:18am

RipHer2Shreds

laurarichardson said:

Adisa said:


Those were my thoughts before I even read the content of this thread. Will is as gay as the day is long. Jada? Well, I guess it's a sad case of preferring to have a Down Low brotha than no brotha at all.

shrug

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Can some explain why they think Will is gay? WTF has this brother done to have the Gayblade title put on him.

Yes, please explain. It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay.
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Reply #33 posted 12/22/05 8:24am

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Will Smith says he has 'open' marriage with Jada Pinkett Smith

U.S. actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first.

"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say "forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact."

"If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'"

Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film "Hitch," in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as "freakin' gorgeous."

Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid.


http://www.realitytvworld...?s=1001905


What? I'm not quite sure what the article is saying...It's just kind of heavily implying that he has an open marriage but the end just suggests that he can admit that he is attracted to other women. It just sounds like the possiblity is out there but it's never happened? If he has an open marriage, why would he admit to a hole in the wall like "Daily Mail" and it would be reported by Realitytvwolrd.com? And he has an open marriage, but isn't allowed to swear on his CDs? Hypocritical much?
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Reply #34 posted 12/22/05 9:51am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

laurarichardson said:


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Can some explain why they think Will is gay? WTF has this brother done to have the Gayblade title put on him.

Yes, please explain. It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay.

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Shut up. I don't give a rats ass if he is gay but, I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true.
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Reply #35 posted 12/22/05 9:53am

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laurarichardson said:

Adisa said:


Those were my thoughts before I even read the content of this thread. Will is as gay as the day is long. Jada? Well, I guess it's a sad case of preferring to have a Down Low brotha than no brotha at all.

shrug

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Can some explain why they think Will is gay? WTF has this brother done to have the Gayblade title put on him.


Easy. He contracted the disease known as "celebrity".
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Reply #36 posted 12/22/05 9:54am

RipHer2Shreds

laurarichardson said:

RipHer2Shreds said:


Yes, please explain. It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay.

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Shut up. I don't give a rats ass if he is gay but, I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true.

"I don't give a rats ass" and "I don't think it's cool to slap that label on." Those two sentiments don't mix. Why would it bother you if somebody feels one way or the other? And what sort of explanation could anyone give that would appease you?
[Edited 12/22/05 9:57am]
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Reply #37 posted 12/22/05 9:59am

RipHer2Shreds

laurarichardson said:

RipHer2Shreds said:


Yes, please explain. It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay.

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Shut up. I don't give a rats ass if he is gay but, I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true.

And besides, didn't you just prove my point? I said, "It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay." You said, "I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true."
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Reply #38 posted 12/22/05 10:03am

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missfee said:

i know that i had heard this a while ago, but i use to think that Will & Jada were perfect for each other, they present theirselves as if they are understanding of each other which is why their marriage works.....

but if this is what truly is going on, then no wonder Will is all smiles all the time....and it just makes Jada look dumb, even if she is getting hers on the side too....

i'd like to see the look on her face if Will came home one night and said "do you mind if i give you Herpes?? Remember that chick i asked you i could fuck last week, well yeah, she forgot to get tested...."


and God created condoms and it was goooood....
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Reply #39 posted 12/22/05 10:23am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

laurarichardson said:


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Shut up. I don't give a rats ass if he is gay but, I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true.

"I don't give a rats ass" and "I don't think it's cool to slap that label on." Those two sentiments don't mix. Why would it bother you if somebody feels one way or the other? And what sort of explanation could anyone give that would appease you?
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Lord have mercy!!! If someone is gay I don't think they should discriminated against or shuned.

I am not a bigot on the other hand who the hell would want someone saying something like that about them if it not true. Do you think it is normal to be content with having people telling a pack of f**king lies about you.

In addtion, Will is married don't you think this would upset is wife and kids.

As far as an explanation I would expect that he was seen kissing a dude or hanging out at Gay strip clubs. Something to indicate that he was gay.
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Reply #40 posted 12/22/05 10:23am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

laurarichardson said:


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Shut up. I don't give a rats ass if he is gay but, I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true.

And besides, didn't you just prove my point? I said, "It really bothers laurarichardson when somebody thinks that somebody else might be gay." You said, "I don't think it is cool to slap that label on someone if it is not true."

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False accusations of any kind are not cool.
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Reply #41 posted 12/22/05 10:30am

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jasonstar said:

Will Smith says he has 'open' marriage with Jada Pinkett Smith

U.S. actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first.

"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say "forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact."

"If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'"

Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film "Hitch," in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as "freakin' gorgeous."

Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid.

http://www.realitytvworld...?s=1001905



Will Smith pretending to be interesting.
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Reply #42 posted 12/22/05 11:06am

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missfee said:

yep this is old, i heard this a while back....and while i can understand why they have an open marriage, it is also very disappointing, because you are telling me (my husband) that "i love you with all my heart, and no one will be in my heart but you, but do you mind if i stick my dick into some other women's pussy because....i just need to do it and she's hot.." My response would be "HELL TO THE NAW"

and if you need to do all that shit, then you need to stay single.

While in a commitment with someone, i'll be damned before i have to "share" my man with the other women that he sees fit to fuck. i'm sorry but that's just foolish....


I'm a guy and I understand the so-called biological need to f**k everything that moves, but...damn. If you're married, if you're committed to someone, if someone is the mother of your children, let it go. Save your relationship. As soon as *any* woman can provide that kind of pleasure to you, then your relationship is just that less special.

Maybe I'm stupid. Maybe that's not how the world works.

But it would be nice to know that at least *something* in this world can be beautiful.
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Reply #43 posted 12/22/05 11:28am

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origmnd said:

read between the fucken lines....

Ima gay shes a dyke ...


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Reply #44 posted 12/22/05 11:36am

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I heard about this a while back no big whoop hell monogamy is a social construct anyway. If they are both cool with it there really should be no problem. Another note, who cares if he's gay, bi or any point in between. If he is more power to him. I don't see why everyone is making such a big deal of this. I guess we are all Puritans at heart... lol
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Reply #45 posted 12/22/05 12:58pm

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Hell, I wish all marriages were open. That way, I wouldn't have to sneak when I sleep with someone's spouse.
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Reply #46 posted 12/22/05 1:01pm

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That's why they have to have an open marriage. What Will wants, Jada doesn't have (and vice versa). It's obviously a marriage of convenience (Remember, Rock Hudson, Tyrone Power, Anthony Perkins, Cary Grant, Charles Laughton, and even Elton John !! were all married to women at some points in their lives ).
The sad part is not the accusation that he's gay (not that's there's anything wrong with it), but that our homophobic society will not allow any rapper or leading man to feel that they can come out and be themselves
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Reply #47 posted 12/22/05 1:03pm

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jasonstar said:

Will Smith says he has 'open' marriage with Jada Pinkett Smith

U.S. actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first.

"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say "forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact."

"If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'"

Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film "Hitch," in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as "freakin' gorgeous."

Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid.

http://www.realitytvworld...?s=1001905


Please note his use of the words "somebody" and "people" when referring to potential sex partners. That's common among gays who don't want to fully come out, they avoid giving a gender specific pronoun
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Reply #48 posted 12/22/05 1:36pm

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vainandy said:

Hell, I wish all marriages were open. That way, I wouldn't have to sneak when I sleep with someone's spouse.


lol lol lol lol
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Reply #49 posted 12/22/05 1:41pm

RipHer2Shreds

CinisterCee said:

vainandy said:

Hell, I wish all marriages were open. That way, I wouldn't have to sneak when I sleep with someone's spouse.


lol lol lol lol

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Reply #50 posted 12/22/05 2:52pm

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Alasseon said:

missfee said:

yep this is old, i heard this a while back....and while i can understand why they have an open marriage, it is also very disappointing, because you are telling me (my husband) that "i love you with all my heart, and no one will be in my heart but you, but do you mind if i stick my dick into some other women's pussy because....i just need to do it and she's hot.." My response would be "HELL TO THE NAW"

and if you need to do all that shit, then you need to stay single.

While in a commitment with someone, i'll be damned before i have to "share" my man with the other women that he sees fit to fuck. i'm sorry but that's just foolish....


I'm a guy and I understand the so-called biological need to f**k everything that moves, but...damn. If you're married, if you're committed to someone, if someone is the mother of your children, let it go. Save your relationship. As soon as *any* woman can provide that kind of pleasure to you, then your relationship is just that less special.

Maybe I'm stupid. Maybe that's not how the world works.

But it would be nice to know that at least *something* in this world can be beautiful.

i agree with you, if you're single, then hey its whatever, but if you are in a committment with someone, then you need to change. lol
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Reply #51 posted 12/22/05 2:53pm

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Moonwalkbjrain said:

missfee said:

i know that i had heard this a while ago, but i use to think that Will & Jada were perfect for each other, they present theirselves as if they are understanding of each other which is why their marriage works.....

but if this is what truly is going on, then no wonder Will is all smiles all the time....and it just makes Jada look dumb, even if she is getting hers on the side too....

i'd like to see the look on her face if Will came home one night and said "do you mind if i give you Herpes?? Remember that chick i asked you i could fuck last week, well yeah, she forgot to get tested...."


and God created condoms and it was goooood....

yeah and sometimes relationships, they tend to break....
[Edited 12/22/05 14:53pm]
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Reply #52 posted 12/22/05 3:00pm

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jjhunsecker said:

jasonstar said:

Will Smith says he has 'open' marriage with Jada Pinkett Smith

U.S. actor Will Smith says he and his wife have an agreement that they can have sex with others provided they inform each other first.

"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural," Smith told Britain's Daily Mail. "You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say "forsaking all others. The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact."

"If it came down to it, then one can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it -- but please approve of it.'"

Smith said he was forced to admit he had sexual feelings for other women when working on his film "Hitch," in which he stars with Eva Mendes, whom he described as "freakin' gorgeous."

Despite that attraction, Smith says his second marriage is still solid.

http://www.realitytvworld...?s=1001905


Please note his use of the words "somebody" and "people" when referring to potential sex partners. That's common among gays who don't want to fully come out, they avoid giving a gender specific pronoun


Assuming for a moment, Will Smith is gay or bi, do you think he will ever come out? Or do you think it will always be hidden?
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Reply #53 posted 12/22/05 3:01pm

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i've never thought of Will Smith as being either gay or bi, i just figured he was man-whore like most of them entertainers....
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Reply #54 posted 12/22/05 5:02pm

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jasonstar said:

jjhunsecker said:



Please note his use of the words "somebody" and "people" when referring to potential sex partners. That's common among gays who don't want to fully come out, they avoid giving a gender specific pronoun


Assuming for a moment, Will Smith is gay or bi, do you think he will ever come out? Or do you think it will always be hidden?

Probably not. Sad but true, his career as a leading man /action star/rapper would be washed up if he came out. That's the society we live in
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Reply #55 posted 12/23/05 6:25am

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One final word about this topic and I'll shut up.

I happen to know Mr. Smith; so far, I've never seen anything to indicate that he's gay.

If he is, he's the World's Greatest Actor.

Enuff said...
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Reply #56 posted 12/23/05 6:33am

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Alasseon said:

One final word about this topic and I'll shut up.

I happen to know Mr. Smith; so far, I've never seen anything to indicate that he's gay.

If he is, he's the World's Greatest Actor.

Enuff said...

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Thank You. !!! Kind of figured he is another black man being slandered by the media with lies.
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Reply #57 posted 12/23/05 10:34am

RipHer2Shreds

laurarichardson said:

Alasseon said:

One final word about this topic and I'll shut up.

I happen to know Mr. Smith; so far, I've never seen anything to indicate that he's gay.

If he is, he's the World's Greatest Actor.

Enuff said...

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Thank You. !!! Kind of figured he is another black man being slandered by the media with lies.

Oh, good gravy, laura! It has nothing to do with his race. Plenty of people's sexuality are brought into question because of their celebrity, not their race.
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Reply #58 posted 12/23/05 10:38am

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RipHer2Shreds said:

laurarichardson said:


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Thank You. !!! Kind of figured he is another black man being slandered by the media with lies.

Oh, good gravy, laura! It has nothing to do with his race. Plenty of people's sexuality are brought into question because of their celebrity, not their race.


Yeah, plus lots of people just probably jumped to the gay/bi conclusion because of his own open marriage remarks. If anyone is to blame it is Will for saying that kind of crap to a reporter. It is one thing to do that type of stuff in your own marriage, but why you gotta air the dirty laundry? eek
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Reply #59 posted 12/23/05 2:38pm

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jasonstar said:

RipHer2Shreds said:


Oh, good gravy, laura! It has nothing to do with his race. Plenty of people's sexuality are brought into question because of their celebrity, not their race.


Yeah, plus lots of people just probably jumped to the gay/bi conclusion because of his own open marriage remarks. If anyone is to blame it is Will for saying that kind of crap to a reporter. It is one thing to do that type of stuff in your own marriage, but why you gotta air the dirty laundry? eek


Among Hollywood types, it's usually done to prevent something from hitting the fan...
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